A beautiful garden does not magically spring up out of the earth. You may find a bunch of pretty wildflowers along a roadside, or an errant orchid in the woodland, but a garden requires a kind of choreography. Someone has to choose the plants, place them lovingly into the dirt, water them, nurture them, and care about them. Your are expecting something magical to spring from a relationship - and it can. But first you will have to do all the hard work that's required to create that garden. You will reap what you sow.